I get angry when I don't feel sexy.

I'm making my own self laugh out loud now. I'm serious. The thought of me super pissed off because I don't feel sexy is silly...but it's TRUE! I get mad because I love feeling good about myself and I feel damn good when I have on something that makes me feel adorned. It's not about someone else saying "Damn girl you look fly!", it's about how I feel in MY own skin and clothes.

Feeling sexy is just a "feeling". So create whatever experience you need to so that you "feel" sexy. It's an effort, one that you must put the energy into. I'll go a few weeks without giving any attention at all to my fem chic treasures. Silky lacy materials that are uber soft on my skin, a pretty peachy pink shade of lip gloss that gives me pouty lips, my red shiny patent leather high heels (or my black lacy panites with the fuchsia colored bow in the back...YOW-ZA!!!). You can hide your saucy little minxness....just be sure it's there for your pleasure. When you feel sexy I promise you will behave with more confidence and relaxation, things will just roll off your shoulders because who gives a damn honey, you feel good. And all of this without a glass of wine?! It's almost sounds absurd ha ha ha! 

Adorning that body of yours is très fem chic and is an absoute ncessary when it comes to falling in love with who you are, as you are, right now.

*I had to share the above photo  by Amanda Nisbet Design, Inc. I found it on one of my most favorite blogs in the world.... Coco Kelley. The room is decorated with such a delicate and romantic touch. I am divinely inspired by this room. I bet a saucy little minx lives there and glitter and roses fall from her ceiling every morning to gently wake her up. Carpe Diem Mamacitas!

xo

Rashaan Cruzé

"You wander from room to room, hunting for the diamond necklace, that is already around your neck." -Rumi

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